Rob Calcutt

A space for urban misfits

The urban jungle can be a confusing place!

Relax, unwind and stop the noise.

💌

Your subconscious has a message for you.

Lean in for a listen and you might be surprised!

Hey, I’m Rob. 👋

I’m here to help you own your story, connect with your life urge and give your wounded inner child a platform for expression.

Shamanic practitioner

Gong geek

Breathworker

Tarot slinger

Cat mother

Shamanic practitioner 〰 Gong geek 〰 Breathworker 〰 Tarot slinger 〰 Cat mother 〰

My story

Anyone who raved through the 90s will agree it was a riot! 🥳

However, growing up queer in this era was an isolating experience. 😵‍💫

Homosexuality was classified as a mental illness and teachers were forbidden, by law, to talk about queerness. For my inner child, any attempt at self-love was, by definition, radical, political and anti-establishment. 

I formed a belief that my authentic self was unlovable and began to dissociate from everyday reality. Continually distracted, I’d sometimes retreat so far inwards that my everyday experience was like being inside a fish bowl. 🐟

This ‘othering’ led me to bury trauma during key developmental stages. Altered behaviour patterns that would later become the foundation of my adult identity. 

Post-30, childhood wounds often come knocking as we begin to deal with the consequences of compensatory behaviours, addictions, co-dependencies and negative self-talk. Sadly, no one wrote the rulebook on how to navigate this. 🤷

Maybe you’ve experienced a version of the above?

If so, pull up a chair, you’re in the right place!

I put together these offerings for anyone living with the blanket residue of imposter syndrome.

Moments of belonging and clarity, where we tap into something bigger, can be huge. Plus, once we allow these parts of ourselves to take root, we can begin a fresh period of self-assured growth.

The secret is embracing flow, not attaching to states. Diving into the shadows can be fun too!

Free medicine wheel journey

My offerings

Rebirthing breathwork

Gong bathing

Shamanic journeying

Tarot reading

FAQ

Tarot readings for clarity in a crisis

Health studies

Contact me

rob@urbanhealer.co.uk
07810 267778

London, N15

“The secret is embracing flow, not attaching to states. Diving into the shadows can be fun too!”

- Rob Calcutt.

 

@roburbanhealer